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                            Phrase(s): take one’s cue from someone
to use someone else’s behavior or reactions as a guide to one’s own. (From the theatrical cue as a signal to speak, etc.)  •  If you don’t know which spoons to use at the dinner, just take your cue from John.  •  The other children took their cue from Tommy and ignored the new boy.
                        
                        
 
                        
                            McGrawhill's American Idioms And Phrasal Verbs