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Use this list only if you need some suggestions for your caretakers' traits.
Profile of Childhood Caretakers
In the figure below, list each caretaker's traits as you recall them from childhood.
List specific positive experiences with each childhood caretaker.
Underline your best experience with each caretaker.
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It is interesting to note here that in attachment science, accurate, coherent communication on the part of the main caretaker regarding attachment-related emotions is deemed the major determinant of a child's later attachment style (Shaver, Collins, & Clarke, 1996).
The father is encour- aged to offer caretaking and support to the son, but to turn to his wife to get his needs for emotional support met.
Other systems approaches traditionally set up new kinds of encounters in order to challenge the habitual patterns of power and con- trol and the coalitions in a family (Minuchin & Fishman, 1981), whereas attachment approaches, and EFFT in particular, attend specifically to patterns of distance and disconnection that disrupt effective caretaking and the creation of nurturance and moments of secure bonding.
The EFFT therapist will not just support parents in a one-on-one session around the family problem (as usually occurs in DDP), but also will actively work in a couple session to process the pain associated with their parenting role, helping partners work together to regulate this distress so that they can be better caretakers and attach- ment figures for their children.
However, it is important to remember that in EFFT the goal regarding the couple's relationship is to create enough equilibrium and safe connection between partners to potentiate effective coparent- ing and allow the caretaking system to operate smoothly, rather than to create or restore secure attachment for the couple per se.،These transmuting internalizations (that is, something done for one is changed to something one does for one's self) are assumed to occur when, in the course of successful caretaking, that is, supplying the needs of the infant, a mother has a minute failure.
Kohut's oft-quoted statement that the baby is strong refers to his seeing the baby as ideally "designed" to fit with caretakers into a niche.
This fit facilitates the baby's developing psychic structure by transmuting internalizations of functions previously performed for him by the caretaker.
However, implicit in this clinical material were the patient's descriptions of herself as burdened, resentful, feeling deprived of protection and nurturance, and angry for being overly accommodating and for being a caretaker or mother to "mother" figures and an authority for a man she had met.
She was understood as longing for nurturance and feeling threatened by her desires to be taken care of, which were defended against through her excessive caretaking of others.
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