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In narcissistic patients there is ready access to anger towards others who hurt, but significant defenses against the internal experience of pain and grief.
Accepting our animal nature and allowing these violent, greedy, egotistical, and narcissistic fantasies and impulses to come to the forefront will undo the influence they currently have because they're no longer treated as scary, abnormal, or something you need to shame yourself over.
To admit that would mean to abandon cherished illusions of how the world works, and to our narcissistic grandiose ego that would be the same as admitting that it has been "wrong" (which is the worst the ego can experience).
It is narcissistic (i.e self-obsessed) by nature.
Most of this constant "thinking" is mundane, trivial, weird, childish, irrelevant, random, fearful, repetitive, selfish, negative, aggressive, sexually oriented, self-obsessive, narcissistic, and loveless.،Observing patients with narcissistic pathology, Kohut (1971) made a major clinical discovery.
Some of the most intense narcissistic experiences relate to objects; objects, that is, which are either used in the service of the self and of the maintenance of its instinctual investment, or objects which are themselves experienced as part of the self.
To try to resolve the question of selfobject as person and function or experience and representation, we will follow the path Kohut traversed to arrive at his 1971 formulation, a path that explored clinical findings with a group of patients suffering from narcissistic personality disorders.
Kohut found that the patient's response to the analyst indicated that the analyst was perceived as "archaic, narcissistically cathected, and prestructural" (p. 21).
Kohut's view of infancy was based on the commonly held assumption that neonates experience their world as primarily narcissistic, that is, in a general state of bliss and omnipotence with no differentiation between self and other.،It is an endogenous, narcissistically determined ego-feeling; it materializes when the boundaries of the ego have been expanded by the establishment of unity between ego and the world as a result of object cathexis, sublimation, or the attainment of unity in the ego itself
This results from the monopolization of psychic energy in service of the goal we have described: the silencing of the narcissistic wound, of aggression, and of guilt reactions
In Eidelberg's (1951) words, "happiness can only be experienced if the individual succeeds in finding an object suitable at the same time for the purpose of the satisfaction of object and narcissistic libido" (p. 243).
, in the setting of a narcissistic personality) is clinically well-known (Akhtar, 1989, 1992a; Kernberg, 1975, 1984), the syndrome of "premature contentment" has achieved inoptimal attention.
him narcissistic injury and shame.،Anger is a strong feeling of displeasure and antagonism most often aroused by the sadness associated with a sense of injury or wrong, by anxiety, or by narcissistic personality traits. anger also can arise from recollection of and
Many will decide for forgiveness only after reassurance that they do not have to trust or become vulnerable toward the offender, particularly a controlling, angry, or narcissistic individual, and that forgiveness does not preclude expressing anger or pursuing justice
In the work of understanding and reframing, Rocco was able to recognize that Marina's father manifested narcissistic behaviors toward her mother and sister that resulted in extreme fears of being hurt in a similar manner.
Equally difficult to resolve is the resentment associated with panic attacks in those who are married to angry, controlling, critical, or narcissistic spouses.
The strongest anger uncovered is from unresolved hurts with their fathers and from narcissistic conflicts.
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